Day 11: The Power of a System

Today we will introduce one of the secrets that we will use together as Entrepreneurs for Life to change the world. We will utilize the picture posted here to the left below as a symbolic representation. Once you realize the value of this symbol and how it actually runs the world (and is therefore one of the keys to changing both yourself inwardly and the world outwardly) then we will have made significant progress on this journey.

Let’s start with some context. The symbol, which is composed of an equilateral triangle, with horizontal line below the base, all enclosed by an oval, is a symbolic representation of our world system. It represents the system that runs our world on multiple levels. It is the system that is utilized by the elite of this world to maintain their positions of power and relative security. It is also the system that we will use to empower ourselves and each other, those walking within the principle of self-change as what is best for all, to break through the limitations that we have accepted both within ourselves and without in our world. How does this work? It works because only a system can manage the vast amount of resources, people, communications, information, actions, transactions, etc that make up our daily lives and affect every person, animal, and plant on this planet in every moment. Think about your breathing. If you had to think about it in order to live, how long would you live? Not very long, if you are honest. I mean, what happens when you try to go to sleep? Fortunately this process is automated through a system. So, on a larger scale, we as humanity, have created an automated system, over time, that runs this world. It runs the government, the money system, the education system, everything. And it is in fact each of us participating in this system that allows it to continue to function, and yet in this moment right now, it is running ‘on its own’ so to speak. Go out in the morning and observe all the people driving to work. Going somewhere they don’t want to be, to do something they don’t want to do, to make money to survive and to chase ‘happiness’ (whatever that is) when death and unhappiness is inevitable. Why do we do it? Who benefits? Ostensibly, those who own and manage the corporations we are all working for benefit, but they are just like us, just trying to make a buck. They believe ‘it’s just the way it is’ like everyone else. To understand this point in all its detail, I highly suggest you begin reading Creation’s Journey to Life to get some real perspective on your life and this world. But in the context of this blog it is sufficient to understand that this world runs on an automated system and derives its power from the physical labor of human beings. In order to stop this system or at the very least adjust it to one that is not ENSLAVING us to focus only on survival, we must realize that we cannot just END the system. That would be chaos. It would be madness and fighting. We need a system that supports the very best in everyone. Not the very worst. So to do that we must understand how the system works, at least at a basic level, and become very good at utilizing it to place ourselves in positions of power and responsibility to direct this world. They say that power corrupts. That is not true. Corruption corrupts power. We humans are corrupt and thus we must change. And as we change we must then change our relationship to power, and direct ourselves in a way in which we use power simply as the means to power a system that supports all Life equally. So let’s begin with the basics of the system so that we may place ourselves in a position of EMPOWERMENT for the betterment of all Life.

Let us now continue by breaking the symbol down into its component features and looking at their meaning and significance. We will give examples for each component of how they exist in the world and do our best to give the context necessary, but the examples are by no means exhaustive. Once you see the essence of each component and its function, you should begin to see more examples of how each component exists in our world.

First, the triangle. The triangle has 2 legs and a base. Each leg presents ‘Books’ and ‘Audios’ respectively. The base represents ‘Events’. In the elite circles, you have ‘secret societies’ in which certain knowledge and information is shared amongst the members. Information that allows them to adjust their attitude and mindset towards setting and achieving goals, which gives them a distinct advantage in this world, and is in fact one of the keys to their success in maintaining their positions. Books are where the information is codified and thus reading is an essential skill for any leader and especially a leader who has integrity. Books allow us to learn from the masters of the past. Books allow us to benefit from the experience and life lessons of our ancestors. But we must be careful of who we listen to. The elite listen to each other and those in their line of ancestry that have proven their effectiveness in the world. The books allow them to pass on their knowledge to each other. This is obviously why the average person cannot really read. This is deliberate. Because this leg of the triangle, ‘books,’ is also a leg of the triangle in the World System. See this symbol, the one pictured above, exists in multiple ways. There is the ‘Elite System’, which supports the elite in their inner circles to maintain their dominant position in terms of impulsing their members with the skills, mindset, and conditioning to perform at ‘higher levels’ than the average person. But then there is the ‘World System’ which is what impulses the average person (and even to some extent the elite themselves) to remain in a failure mindset, performing at a low level of creative potential and with a low self-esteem. There is a third system, which is the ‘GIN system’ which we will get to once you have the proper context, as it is the key to us, the Entrepreneurs for Life, empowering each other to perform at the elite levels while maintaining/developing our integrity as Life. In the World System, this leg of the triangle, which represents ‘books,’ is our education system as public schools, universities, magazines, book stores, etc where information is disseminated and programmed into us through ‘reading’, where obviously our reading levels as a society, if you look at the research, does not typically go beyond an 8th grade level (lower in most cases), without specific interventions with specific tools, which do exist, but as of yet are not ‘mainstream’ for obvious reasons. So, we have the elite with books passed down from generation to generation teaching their children the stories of success that really work and then we have the books in our world (which obviously is not just ‘books’ but our entire system of transferring lessons through ‘study’) which either only entertain us in fantasies to ignore the reality of our lives or distract us or deliberately program us with ‘lessons’ that disempower and create discord and division within ourselves and amongst each other.

So now we come to the other leg of the triangle, which is ‘audios’. The elite utilize both the spoken word as well as audio recordings as another form of educating each other, and here the advantage is engaging another sense, that of sound, and the principle of spaced repetition. Here we also have the concept of ‘vibration’ or ‘frequency’ which is greatly misunderstood or distorted in the Law of Attraction and Positive Thinking circles. Your mind operates at a frequency and just like a tuning fork struck and placed near another fork that begins to resonate, your mind can be entrained to operate at another frequency. Our backchat, as our habitual internal dialogue is an example of this where we repeat the same thought (a thought is a subtle form of energy and thus has a frequency) and eventually we begin to manifest the essence of that thought in our reality to some degree. So the elite understand this principle, which is why baroque classical music was invented, because obviously back then only the elite had access to these types of things. Now, look at the types of music that the average person listens to. Is it designed to support you to be your very best or rather to entrain you into just feeling better about where you are at and justifying your feelings and emotions? Go listen to Rihanna, or Nicki Minaj, or Lady Gaga. Listen to the Tell-a-vision PROGRAMS. They are training us to behave in specific patterns, which are ‘frequencies’ that will never challenge the elite. Consider what you listen to on the radio as you drive to work. It numbs you, just like the Soma in Brave New World, to accept the system as it is. Music is ‘catchy’ and without realizing it you are embedding self-limiting programs into your subconscious mind, that which has more influence on your behavior than your conscious thoughts do. So we see the role of ‘audios’ in both the Elite and World Systems. They are used to empower and disempower respectively.

The base of our triangle is ‘Events’. The elite, within their private clubs and societies, hold events where they network with each other, where they discuss their plans and goals, but even more importantly, where they let loose and have fun. This is where they release all the tension from working so hard throughout the past few months. They go crazy. They dance, they sing, they swim at the pool. They party. They give themselves a break from their absolute focus on creating the world THEY WANT. This is an essential part of the system and is what allows the elite to keep going day after day after day. The body will only work so hard without a reward. In the World System we have ‘events’ such as vacations, although most people don’t really get to enjoy themselves on vacation because they are more worried about not spending too much money (they probably spent most of their savings just to go on holiday), and what most people choose to do on vacation is generally something that they were sold on by TV or the magazines. They do not experience real letting go and letting loose. They have simply bought some kind of product such as a vacation package or an idea from the media about what it means to go on vacation. Consider how vacations are presented in the movies and TV. But events are even more specific than just vacationing in the World System. Events are football games, holidays, and anything that is participated within by large masses of people. 9/11 was an event. These events and how they are presented or participated within are used to generate emotions within large groups of people, usually to be directed into buying, which is why Thanksgiving and Christmas, being the most emotionally charged holidays, are also the times where we buy the most. Many businesses operate year round at a loss just to make massive profits during these two holidays. The elite use events to release. The masses are only USED by events so they will RELEASE funds from their bank accounts.

So, by now, you are starting to see how we have these two systems running concurrently, one used to empower the elite and one used to disempower everyone else. Let us continue with the remaining components.

Next, we have the horizontal line at the base of the triangle, which is ‘Recognition’. In the elite circles, this is where each one congratulates the other on their success. Where they express support for each other, where they give each other that which we all deep down want, which is recognition for our accomplishments. At events they applaud each other and hold up those who have had major successes in front of the group to be praised. This experience allows the elite to go back to their lives and focus with more determination, recharged so to speak. Obviously this desire for recognition stems from the fact that we do not recognize all Life equally and thus we receive the lack of recognition through the Law of Balance. And, if the elite are receiving recognition, then there must be a lack being experienced somewhere else. That brings us to the role of recognition in the World System. In the World System we give recognition, not to each other, no, because what have we done? No, we give it to the celebrities. We give recognition and praise to GOD. We give recognition to the athletes, the grown men paid millions of dollars to play with their balls in public. When was the last time you stood in front of a thousand people and had them applaud for you in genuine appreciation and support of your growth and accomplishment? So, instead we turn that frustration inward which then is expressed where we take it out on our spouse, our children, each other. This is why cars have horns. We are just honking and honking hoping someone will notice us. We buy clothing, iPhones, all kinds of products trying to stand out and be recognized but we just end up looking like everyone else. And the elite know that we are stupid because the other legs of the triangle have made sure of that, and that we will buy anything as long as it is presented in a way that makes us think it will give us recognition. And yet we never recognize that thousands of children die everyday due to our participation in this system, not to mention the countless billions of animals. Watch the documentary Earthlings to get a clue.

Lastly, we have the oval around the outside. This oval represents ‘Relationships’. The elite understand that your Network is your Net Worth. This is what politicians are very good at: networking. You go to Harvard, not for the education, per se, although it certainly does raise your self-esteem being in that environment, but because your roommate is Bill Gates or Mark Zuckerberg. Look at your friends. Are any of them going to be president or start billion dollar companies? What is the company you keep? You go to church or sporting events and chant like an idiot not realizing you are just channeling any potential for creative output that would make the world better into the pockets of those who do not care about you or your children. Not that you care either. Or do you? I didn’t care for a long time. I really only cared about myself and my own happiness. It wasn’t until I discovered through Desteni that the reason I am not happy is because no one is happy. And the solution to my happiness, if you want to call it that, is to stop creating unhappiness and suffering for everyone. We are all doing it to each other. Our relationship to ourselves is one of mistrust, fear, and denial. Our relationships with each other are no different. The system functions as a whole to reinforce things as they are.

Now that we have covered the components and function of the system we come to the real point of this post. If you have principle and you want to change yourself and the world, you require a system. You require a system that can provide you with the tools, the relationships and the recognition to move in the system with success. You have a responsibility to become the elite. Not to simply change the authority with a new one, but to end ELITISM once and for all. We can have a world where everyone has an amazing, wonderful life. It does not need to be reserved for the few. That kind of thinking is actually just fear. And you may feel like you don’t have what it takes, but you do! You have your Principle and now you understand that value of having a SYSTEM. This system is not actually hidden. Many companies use this system, all do it in fact, but it’s just not always obvious unless you really study it and know what to look for. Amway (amongst many other companies) has built a multi-billion dollar global empire using this system. Many companies use this system to sell a product - businesses are designed to make money - but GIN, the Global Information Network, is the only company where the SYSTEM is the PRODUCT itself, designed to empower you to achieve your goals. And just to assuage your fears, it is not an MLM or network marketing company. The Global Information Network is a private club, like the private clubs of the elite, but one that is open to everyone. It condenses all the books and audios that actually work and throws out the ones that don’t. What take 30 years to figure out on you own, you can learn within years potentially, if you apply yourself. And if you represent a product of integrity, then you need GIN as the system that will support you in this world to Stand Up and Stand Out. You will read many things online about GIN, both positive and negative, but you will investigate all things and keep what is best and not allow yourself to be influenced by fear. Or will you? I have planted many seeds within this post, and for those who have the eyes to see and the ears to hear and the resolve to Stand Up and Stand Out, it is time NOW for action. Join GIN as a free associate here: JOIN GIN. Learn more about it. Talk to the members. Discover the secrets to self-empowerment. GIN is not the end, it is only one of the means. The end is always the starting point, which is Life as what is Best for All. Today you have been exposed to the secret to FINANCIAL PERFECTION which will catapult you forward in your journey. Stick to your Principle. Use discernment. Do not be deceived by appearances. As the CEO of GIN, Troy McClain says, “Look beyond the obvious.”

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Day 10: Mistakes as Feedback

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to judge myself for making a mistake.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to think “I fucked up” after making a mistake.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear facing the consequences of making a mistake.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to want to punish myself for making a mistake.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that feeling bad and negative within myself, and feeling regretful, will in some way alleviate any potential consequence from making a mistake.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that there exists a higher authority that is watching me and will punish me for making a mistake.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear making a mistake out of fear of being reprimanded by a higher authority.

I forgive myself that I have not allowed myself to realize that how I feel about making a mistake is created within myself through what I have accepted and allowed towards making mistakes.

I forgive myself that I have not allowed myself to realize that I fear making mistakes as a result of internalizing the examples that I learned in school wherein if I made a mistake I would be punished physically through either being yelled at, hit, placed in a timeout, or removed from the group.

I forgive myself that I have not allowed myself to realize that making mistakes is a part of the learning process wherein I am learning to correct the past mistakes that are within me as the words that I have within me and as their definitions that I have integrated throughout my existence.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to separate myself from myself through participating in a voice in my head that serves as the higher authority which doles out punishing words and feelings.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that making a mistake is the end of the world.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that being a person who never makes mistakes is superior to being a person who makes mistakes and within that I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to participate in a game of superiority and inferiority wherein I judge myself and others for making mistakes or not making mistakes, and thus limit myself to not be able to direct myself and others as myself because I am placing myself in conflict with another through this game.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to want to run and hide from my mistakes.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to want to correct my mistakes.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to participate in energy of defense when I perceive that I am accused of making a mistake.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to think and believe that there is a conflict within myself regarding knowing how to admit my mistakes and take responsibility for them at the same time.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that admitting my mistakes and accepting responsibility is telling others that I made a mistake and convincing them that I have taken responsibility.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to want to rush to a solution to fix a mistake.

I forgive myself that I haven’t allowed myself to realize that before any solution to a mistake can be implemented, I must first stop participation in any energy.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to define myself as someone who cannot admit my mistakes.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to define myself as someone who cannot take responsibility for my mistakes.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to define myself as someone who never makes mistakes.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to define myself as someone who judges others for making mistakes.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to judge others for making a mistake.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to blame another for attacking me or judging me for making a mistake.

mistake: an action that is misguided or wrong, error, to be wrong about

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to be afraid of being wrong.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear committing an error.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed the word mistake to hold a negative value within myself.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed the word error to hold a negative value within myself.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed the word to wrong to hold a negative value within myself.

I realize that a mistake, error, or being wrong, simply means that an action has not produced the result that is the best expression of the action.

I realize that a mistake, error, or being wrong, allows me the opportunity to find out where an action or expression within myself and thus myself is not the best possible version.

I realize that mistakes allow me to see where I am not yet living as the principle as what is best for all Life equal and one.

I realize that a mistake allows me to see where I am not living in alignment with who I really am as Life.

I redefine the word mistake as feedback for myself to support myself to be aware in a moment where I am not living as the principle of what is best.

I commit myself to being aware in each moment of the mistakes that show me where I am not yet living fully within and as the principle of what is best and to utilize those mistakes to specify my application of self-forgiveness to support me to become the best version of myself possible in this life.

Day 9: The Money Paradox

One morning, some time ago, I was walking through a very wealthy neighborhood where the homes cost upwards of 10 million dollars with expansive front yards and large gates with security booths. As I passed by one house I noticed a beautiful 1960’s Rolls Royce parked on the street outside of the gated part. I had seen this car before and so I was curious, if only for the fact that it would be parked on the street and not somewhere more secure. So I went up to it to look inside and admire the craftsmanship. I thought it would be nice to take a picture so I went to the other side of the road and as I reached for my phone I hear a car coming so I looked up and waved and smiled and then went back to looking at the Rolls Royce waiting for the oncoming car to pass. But as it approached, it slowed down and eventually stopped between me and the Rolls Royce. It was a brand new black Range Rover, easily a $90,000 car and the the window was down. A man dressed in a business shirt and tie was driving and said, “It’s a beautiful car isn’t i?” I said that yes it was and we went back and forth discussing the curvature and the lines and I asked him if it was his car. He said no, it was his father-in-law’s and then asked if I lived in the neighborhood. I said, “No, I live south of here, but I walk here every morning, dream-building.” He said, “I understand that. I jog here every morning.” (Implying that he did not live there either and although he was obviously successful (by the looks of his Range Rover) he also had aspirations of achieving more. We then exchanged parting greetings and went our separate ways.

It wasn’t until I began walking away from the situation that I realize that I, although I spoke confidently and was polite and at ease within talking with this man, that I was in fact actually not as confident as I could have been. In fact, I could have asked the man what he did for a living, found out more about him, taken his business card, and followed up with him to show him the things I offer. That’s how business is done. But as I was walking afterwards I was looking at why I didn’t do any of that. There was no conscious thought of not wanting to talk about it, it just didn’t come up. Then I realized there was a point within me where I didn’t quite feel like I belonged there. I didn’t feel like I deserved to be looking at the car, that I had the right, because I don’t have money to the degree that either the man or the owner of the Rolls Royce do. And then I realized that although this was not coming up within me in the moment as a conscious thought or even a feeling of fear or resistance, it was holding me back nonetheless. How can I be my very best if there are still limitations within me that prevent me from expressing the value that I truly offer others?

So this experience may be of some value to you and others, because we live in a world run by a system where those with money use their money to make others feel undeserving of money. And yet the way to make money is to become comfortable with money, to expect it, to know that you deserve it. It’s a paradox. A catch-22. So then I realized that I don’t feel this way about money and wealth because I actually don’t deserve it, it is because of my pre-programming. It is just a program running that has created certain patterns of thought, feeling, and especially behavior; behaviors that prevent me from being my best in any moment and therefore adding the most value possible to other people’s lives.

So, again, it’s not about having a Rolls Royce, because that is just a car. But for us to change the system so that it is best for all, we must become very wealthy. Wealth is more than just money; it’s also the relationships you build, the network you create.

Within all of this I began to understand and realize the immense value of the writing process, the Journey to Life, the Desteni process. It is to find all those limitations within me, those points that are causing me to act in ways that are not best and to take responsibility and correct them so that my automated behaviors are not constantly counteracting my intentions. We learn about the power of intention in success and development circles, and intention is great, but if you have not automated your physical programming to be in alignment with your intent you will eventually fall away from your principle. Remember, energy cannot sustain itself. You require the grounding of that which you intend into your physical body, as your programming that exists in the cells of your body as words.

Another point that I became aware of after looking back at the experience I wrote about above, was the realization that I had a belief that because this man was successful already, he had no need for what I sell. Understand, at this point I was already selling a product that I had worked out for myself was Best for All. Now, the question is, if it is best for ALL, then why would someone’s monetary success exclude them from getting value from what I was offering. It was not that what I sell is not best for all, it was that I had a limiting belief that because someone has money that they won’t listen. And even deeper than that, I actually just felt inferior to this person and how can I, someone not as successful, tell this person that they need something more?

That is how the mind plays tricks on us, lol. The fact is, no matter how successful one is, no matter how much money one makes, it will not protect them from at some point experiencing the consequences of not ensuring that the world is best for everyone. Whether they face the point in this life when the world comes crashing down around them (see: The Natural Learning Ability of the Human for reference) or whether they face it when they die and have to look back at what they done and realize that they were never real and thus have nothing to keep them grounded in reality (see: Life Reviews on EQAFE for reference). Even the elite do not have it all. They have simply been placed in a position where they can, for a short time, escape the experience of the negative consequences of a system that is not best for all. And the only way for them to change the inevitable is to become a person of integrity that stands for life in all ways and to do their part in creating a better world, starting with their own inner world. And because what I sell assists and supports a person to do just that, then everyone is a potential client. Of course, I then have to become very good at communicating, to be able to talk to a person where they are at. To paint the right pictures so they can see past their filters and belief systems to the truth of what I am saying and to create just the right emotional state that will counter the emotional state being used against them by the system to then direct them into a course of action that is best for them. So, if you have a product that can support you to become an effective communicator then that is EVEN BETTER!

I’ll end today with some self-forgiveness and self-correction on the points above. But before we get to that, I just want to say that I appreciate all the feedback I’m getting on this blog and that if you wouldn’t mind leaving me a comment letting me know your thoughts and if you are receiving benefit from this, then I would appreciate it immensely. If you have constructive criticism, that is appreciated as well. Thanks for reading.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that money is evil.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that money is the problem in this world, not realizing that it is how and why money is used that is the problem and therefore it is our individual acceptance and allowance of the system as it exists that is the problem in this world.

I forgive myself that I have not allowed myself to realize that the money system is a reflection of who I am.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to judge other people who have money as bad, instead of learning from them the ways in which to become wealthy but within the starting point of using money and wealth to create a world that is best for all.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to expect that money should just be given to me, not realizing that we live in a system where nothing is free and therefore free is abuse and thus if I am getting something for free, someone, somewhere is being abused on my behalf.

I forgive myself that I have not allowed myself to realize that I have the capacity to creath money and wealth networks to bring about changes in the system through business, education, politics and economics and within that I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that I am not capable of standing within this point.

I forgive myself that I have not allowed myself to realize that one does not have to be special to make money, nor to stand within the principle of what is best, one must simply apply the tools that work consistently, long enough to get the result.

I commit myself to becoming the best communicator possible to sell each person I meet on taking the next logical step to becoming their very best.

I commit myself to becoming wealthy and to use that wealth to support in every way possible the creation of a system that is best for all.

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Day 8: This Too Shall Pass

Life is not a game. Business is a game. One of my mentors told me that when I went to him for support during a challenge within my business. Sport is competitive. There is a winner and loser. It’s tough. People try to cheat. But it’s also fun. It’s exciting, exhilarating at times. This challenge, although not apparent to me at first, was my first real competition in the business world. I wasn’t prepared for it, but then how could I have been? What I quickly realized though was that preparation was irrelevant, because my principle was all that mattered. When you are in a fight and you’re feeling defeated and you want to give up, what is that keeps you going? Is it the promise of reward? Is it the desire for recognition? Is it that you’re looking for a feeling of accomplishment? In any other business those would have been the common reasons, but for me, none of those things are ultimately important. What’s important is that what I am doing is best. If it wasn’t it would be easy to walk away. But when you know WHY you’re doing something, then there’s no giving up. It’s not even an option. And paradoxically, that is real freedom. Because when we bind ourselves to the principle of what is Best for All, we do not bend with what experience throws at us. We have the freedom to choose the right thing no matter whether the experience is positive or negative. And within this realization I found my real strength. If you go back and look at the post for Day 1 where we discussed energy vs structure and Day 5 discussing the use of emotions in selling, you’ll see that the one who bases themselves in energy is the one who eventually loses. Because energy always has a beginning and an end. Don’t believe what they tell you that energy cannot be created nor destroyed. That is lies that are put there to fuck with your mind. If energy can’t be destroyed then why is there divorce? Energy doesn’t last. Principle does.

So, when the competition came, looking for a way to destroy what I (along with many others) had spent years building, I had to very quickly learn to compete at a totally different level. It would be like playing little league and then being called up to the minors (I’m not going to say the major league, because that would give these guys too much credit, lol). Also, understand when I am talking about the competition, it’s not personal. I don’t hold a grudge because I realize that the reason we abuse and fight and compete is because we have abdicated our responsibility to a system, which is the Ego. The ego is the result of separating ourselves from life. And at this point in time it has become like an entity in itself. It is antithetical to life. It is in fact death itself. It is energy based and therefore has to move from host to host sucking the life out of every person it touches. The sad thing is that we allow it. We accept it. We in fact created it, we’ve just allowed ourselves to forget. So, now we have to take responsibility and direct it. And in this ‘fight’ our tools will be self-honesty, where we allow ourselves to examine who we are, who we have become, being open and honest with ourselves so that we may see the err of our ways; self-forgiveness to allow ourselves to stop the cycle of self-reinforcement, to not punish ourselves and perpetuate the abuse, to open ourselves up with a clean slate; self-correction to correct those parts of ourselves that do not act in ways that are best for ourselves and everyone else, to restructure ourselves from the clear starting point to rebuild a foundation within ourselves that will support us to act in ways that are best. We don’t actually have to ‘fight’ the ego, because that will only strengthen it. We only have to forgive ourselves, take self-responsibility, and remain stable within our principle, and eventually the ego will run out of energy.

So within a business based on principle, you are going to find yourself in fights. You can’t stand up for Life in a system of abuse and not expect to piss someone off. And when the fight comes, just remember WHY you are doing what you’re doing. Remember your starting point. Remain stable and realize that the attacker is in fact YOU; a part of you that has gone astray and is coming back looking for direction. Clear the emotions, forgive, and direct. That is how we will weather any storm that may come. Eventually the storm will pass.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to doubt my purpose.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to react to another’s words when it calls my purpose into question.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to project my own abuse of life outside of myself and to blame others and judge others as abusers when in fact we all live in an abusive system, and thus as long as this system exists within the starting point of abuse, no one is able to claim any form of innocence, and yet within that I have the capacity to change myself to no longer accept the system as it is and to face any challenge presented to obstruct my way to changing the system to one that is best for all.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to attack others for having a lack of integrity, not realizing that the system that we have accepted and allowed has no integrity as evidenced by the thousands of children who starve every day and who are abused by those in positions of trust and care, and that integrity will never exist until it exists everywhere, and thus it is not integrity that one should stand by, but the principle of what is best for all.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to blame others for my failures and my limitations, not realizing that in doing so I actually place myself in a position of failure and limitation.

I forgive myself that I have not allowed myself to realize that business is constructed as a game with winners and losers, and that unfortunately we have allowed this game to control Life, instead of supporting all Life equally and utilizing business as a fun and creative way to experience Life.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that I am weak and not able to compete in the game of business.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that I lack the resolve and fortitude to succeed in business.

I forgive myself that I have not allowed myself to realize that the challenges I face in business are opportunities to make me stronger, to prepare me to handle greater challenges and to thus succeed in even greater ways than before.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to perceive others who do not cooperate in business as the enemy.

I forgive myself that I have not accepted and allowed myself to realize that all men and women are my brothers and sisters and that as I do unto them they will do unto me, and thus I commit myself to give to my brothers and sisters my very best, and if I think, feel, believe, or perceive that they do not, then I forgive myself and them as myself until this world is transformed to one where no abuse exist and everyone has every possible opportunity to experience the full joy and happiness of Life equal and one.

I commit myself to stand within the principle of what is best for all by stopping participation within emotions both in the moment through breath and through self-discovery within this writing process to prepare myself to handle greater and greater challenges that require stability in the face of the revenge of the go, and to have the greatest impact that is best for all within the time that I have left on earth.

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Day 7: Failure is not the End

Challenges are inevitable in business. They say that those who really succeed are the ones who fail more than anyone else but keep getting back up and moving forward. We are taught to fear failure through our education system, the media, and the total environment really. In a survival system, failure is unacceptable because it means “the end.” And if we are honest with ourselves, the world is currently set up as a survival system. Some are in a position, due to money, that minor failures do not lead to immediate disaster, but for some, failure to earn a few dollars that day may mean they go to bed hungry. And a human being can only go to bed hungry so many times. Failure to survive means death, and we all fear dying. But by participating in this fear we never allow ourselves to really LIVE. Life is not about survival (in principle), but that is what we have allowed it to become. Imagine a world where survival was guaranteed. What would failure mean in that context? It would then simply not achieving the desired result, but it would not be life or death. Failure is part of any learning process, thus if we fear failure, we prevent ourselves from learning. Being open to learn from one’s experience is a key basic fundamental that one must constantly work on mastering as an entrepreneur. But, if we are participating in fear of failure, then we close ourselves to being open to learn. Thus our teachability drops and we find it very difficult to move forward, whether in business or in life more generally. So, we are presented with an interesting challenge, that we must not participate in fear of failure, and yet fear of failure is ingrained in us from a young age.

So, the choice is clear, we must either confront our fear or accept it and thus consign ourselves to a life of, well, failure. Isn’t that interesting? If we accept fear of failure (which we think will prevent us from failing) we ultimately fail. You might think, “But if we avoid failure then we survive, right?” No, because everyone dies. Isn’t that interesting? Our system is based on a constant focus on survival, and yet death is inevitable? Its really pretty insane when you think about it. What if we, for a moment, accepted the inevitability of our death, and despite that decided to LIVE in each moment regardless. Does the fact that you will die, mean that you should throw all principle out of the window and just fight for survival? It makes no sense and yet it’s what we do.

We fight each other for control of a reality that none of us can possible really own. We lie to ourselves and pretend that our accumulation of wealth and knowledge matters, when in fact all that matters is WHO WE ARE. Given a reality where so many suffer, as both a direct and indirect result of each of our individual actions, will we ignore the suffering and only seek our own (limited) happiness, or will we stand within the principle of doing what is best and thus DO our very best to stop the system of abuse that is causing the suffering? We must examine how we perpetuate it with our own actions, but not be so naive to think that by not participating we have had a lasting effect. The solution is not to stop participating in the system as an individual, it is to stop allowing yourself to be controlled and manipulated by a system that does not have everyone's best interest at heart, and to within that support others to wake up and to take responsibility for the system as a whole.

Do you think that if you decide to stand up for what is best that you will not be challenged? We live in a system that has absolute control over every aspect of our lives, so standing up and supporting others as oneself to do the same will not be an easy task. It will in fact be the greatest task that we could possibly conceive. It will take real creativity and courage. It will involve failing over and over and over until we are able to finally stand without wavering. The only thing we have to guide us in this is our principle, to do what is best, to the best of our ability. Our minds will play tricks, because they have been designed to do that. Our reasoning and our logic will not always be sound, because they have been designed to limit us. Our trust in ourselves will be constantly challenged. We will doubt ourselves at times. The most important thing is that we never give up. Giving up just means delaying the process, because eventually you will get tired of being stuck where you are and have to start again, but it will be harder, because you will have the memories of giving up on yourself. At the end of the day, it doesn’t matter how many times you have failed. If you are breathing right now, then you have this moment to begin again. It doesn’t matter if your whole world is crashing down around you. Just breathe and let the dust settle. In the end the principle of what is best will stand. There can be nothing else.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear failure.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that failure is the end.

i forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to define failure as negative.

I forgive myself that I have not allowed myself to see the gift in failure, in that it provides me with the opportunity to become more specific in my application.

I forgive myself that I have judged others as failures.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to judge myself as a failure.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to wish failure on others out of jealousy over their success.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that success is not available for everyone and that I must compete with others to be successful.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to define success and failure as things that apply to me personally, not realizing that we all succeed or fail together, because we are all together, collectively one, and thus competition is pointless because there can be no winners ultimately.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to be manipulated, both by myself and through others as myself, through the words success and failure.

I commit myself to placing my focus on the success of all Life, which is to say that I commit myself to becoming the best that I can be and to supporting others to be their very best.

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Day 6: The Responsibility of Wealth

Today’s post will consist mainly of self-forgiveness and Self-Commitment statements, however, before we get to that we will look at a point that is important to consider for anyone entering sales, especially those who would utilize sales as a means to bring forth solutions that honor all Life and contribute to making the world a better place for everyone.

It is important that one consider that everyone you speak to is in fact a reflection of you. Thus, when someone does something that is not best, that is in fact you doing that. So, within that we recognize that we have a responsibility, now, to correct those parts of ourselves that are not acting in a way that is best for all. We start with ourselves, obviously, and we learn as we go how to support others. Within this, communication and influence become your primary tools, as a salesperson or an entrepreneur. The ability to communicate, which is to use words, and have another person take a specific action as a result, is the primary tool used by the entrepreneur to create a measurable effect in this world. We will use our skills to sell everyone on becoming the best version of themselves possible, and thus create a better world. 

Within this, an important point to consider is that with each person you talk to, they have their own specific mindset and level of awareness. You must be aware of this so that when you talk to people you talk to them in a way they understand. Many people who get into sales make the mistake of trying to be right with their customer. You can be right, but if you don’t get the other person to act, then you have not had the result that matters. And if you are representing a product or service that is best for all, then every person you do not sell, you have actually harmed them. Do not become disheartened at this, but use it to spur you to develop your skills of communication to your fullest capacity. The primary way to do this is to talk with others and to observe how they respond or react. Be aware of yourself and where you react, keeping in mind yesterday’s post. Remember that if you are reacting, then you are being sold. And if you are clear that what you are offering is best then you cannot afford to react. So when these points come up, use the tools presented here and within the Desteni I Process to remove them. Remember: money flows to the one who is stable. The one who is in emotion is the one who buys.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that I must compromise my principles in order to live.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that survival is more important than anything else, even if it means I have to compromise my principles and harm and abuse in order to survive.

I forgive myself that I have not allowed myself to realize that by choosing to place the utmost value on survival, that I have participated in creating an environment that reinforces survival as the utmost value, and thus have created money as as tool which is used for survival of the fittest and not for what is best for all life equally.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that money is evil, and to thus place the responsibility for using money as a tool to create a system that is best for all outside of myself, and within that trapping myself according to the principle of give as you’d like to receive to experience life as a constant battle between good and evil, where survival at all costs has become the focus of life, no matter how much one has to abuse and harm.

I forgive myself that I have not allowed myself to realize that living in comfort while others struggle to survive is actually bringing harm and abuse to myself, because those others are actually me because they are equal as life.

I forgive myself that I have not accepted and allowed myself to realize that even a life of comfort in this world is still a life of survival, it is just that I have been born into an environment where survival has been automated to a point where less focus and effort is required, however this system of survival works at the expense of others, where the indirect and in some cases direct result is that other people go to bed hungry and are abused and exploited by others for money, all while I live in my life of comfort.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that the purpose of money in this world is to have a life of comfort and fun, when I have not considered that there are others in this world who do not have any possibility of having such a life because of the system that I participate within and accept.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that success is defined as the achievement of material possessions and the accumulation of money, and that I have not considered that the achievement of possessions and the accumulation of money in itself has no value because real value is Life itself, which makes all things possible, and within that I realize that success is taking responsibility for myself in each moment to live the best version of myself possible and to correct every aspect of myself that is not serving Life as what is Best for All, and to correct each part of me that I have separated from myself as systems which are not operating in a way that is best for all.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that sales, business, and money are evil and that they are the problem of why there is suffering and abuse in this world, when in fact they are one of the keys, for those who have the capacity to direct the systems of this world to become best for all.

I commit myself to becoming the best version of myself possible, to correct the parts of myself that are not acting in a way that is best for all, and to correct those systems that I have given my authority to act on my behalf until both inner being and my outer being as this world are both in full support of all Life equally.

I commit myself to become effective within business, to create a business of integrity that supports each person whom we influence and affect to become the best version of themselves possible as best as we practically possibly can.

I commit myself to use my accumulation of wealth, both money and material property, to create a world that is best for all, through providing products to others that support them to become their best, and to influence and design systems to support those who are not in positions to support themselves, so that we may redesign our environment to support future generations to have the opportunity to experience a better world and to develop the common sense to see the oneness and equality of all life.

I commit myself to utilize all of my talents, capabilities and strengths to uplift and support others and to become the most effective entrepreneur that I can, and to identify and work on strengthening my weaknesses and to develop the sight to see the strengths of others so that I may be able to multiply my effectiveness through others, for the best benefit of all.

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Day 5: How to Use Emotions in Selling

Before we jump into the point for today’s post, I’d like to start with a little side point. Don’t skip ahead, this will be worth it.

FEEL GOOD NOW!

That is the secret to the Law of Attraction. But here’s the catch. If you only try to create this feeling in your mind and you try to GET this feeling for yourself, you are ignoring UNIVERSAL LAW. You cannot GET without GIVING. So, if you want to GET the BEST FEELING, then do what is BEST in every moment. Then you will be given the Best. And it is best to feel good isn’t it? But if your good feeling comes at the expense of another, it’s not best, and then you will not get the best. Feeling good is the natural result of doing what is best. That is the LAW OF ATTRACTION at its finest.

In sales training, law of attraction training, success training, etc you are taught to write down your goals. All successful people do this. In GIN, we are taught to write them down on white paper with blue ink and to focus on them day and night. Something ‘magical’ happens, apparently.

But look, here is something really MAGICAL. If you write down everything about yourself, in total self-honesty, and you examine every way in which you are not doing your best, thinking your best, feeling your best, and here BEST must be BEST FOR ALL, otherwise if you harm any part of the universe it will come back to you, give as you’d like to receive, but receive as you’ve given. Now, if you write out all the ways you are not the best you could be, and then forgive yourself on every point, and then write down exactly who you want to be, the best possible version you can work out, and you can have a buddy check it out and make sure you are not fooling yourself, then it’s like MAGIC! You will become what you write! Try it. That’s what the Journey to Life is all about!

I mean that alone was worth the price of admission!

Ok, now to the subject for tonight:

I have the fortune to have some of the greatest mentors possible. I did not figure this stuff out on my own. But I am generally a good student so I listen and I apply. Remember, knowledge without application is useless. Apply this and see for yourself!

Selling is no more, no less than the transference of feelings. I mentioned this yesterday. Now, so many people have a resistance to sales. You know what that means? YOU HAVE BEEN SOLD.

SUCKER!

The elite of this world are all salespeople. Everything in this world runs on money. Life is not all about money, but when it costs money to live, we must come to terms with this fact. That is why you must become RICH as HELL. Imagine what a hundred billionaires with principle could accomplish in this world. What does the US Presidency cost? A few billion? Donald Trump is proving that right now. You just need money.

So most people fear selling, because selling is the highest paid profession. There is virtually no limit to how much money you can make. So, if the key to power in this world is making lots of money, and the key to making lots of money is sales, doesn’t it make sense that those who have mastered the art of persuasion and influence would use their money and skills to prevent you from competing with them? So you fear sales, because you have been sold! We will discuss how that works in a moment, so that your greatest weakness will become your greatest strength.

We already addressed in yesterday’s post the key to sustaining success in selling, through finding a product or service that is Best for All. Now we will discuss some of the mechanics. Again Selling is the transference of feeling. At the moment everyone (read: 99.9999999% of people) are completely 100% motivated by feelings. Most of them are not aware of; it all happens at subconscious and unconscious levels. The advertisers understand this, which is why they hide naked women in coke bottle pictures. You see this over and over again and you are clueless as to why for some reason you are ‘attracted’ to coke. They do this type of thing all the time. So your feelings are your weakness. But realize if everyone is motivated by feelings, and you have a product or service that is Best for All, and you want to get people to use it so that they can become their best, then if you try to explain things logically, are they going to be motivated to act? No, because one, the education system has brainwashed them to not be able to have a single logical, reasonable thought outside of what the TV tells them to think, and two, they are not motivated by logic. They are motivated by feelings. Observe people in a bar hitting on each other. Does the guy who takes the woman home have the best logical argument? Of course not. He knows how to play on the right emotions.

So in sales, you have to spend enough time with someone to find out what are the points of feeling and emotion that motivate them. Remember, if you don’t do this, you will not sell. Everyone does it, but they do it to harm and abuse (whether they realize it or not.) But you have done your homework, and you are giving as you want to receive. If someone had the best thing for you, wouldn’t you hope they would be willing to manipulate you a little if it’s to your benefit? If you’re child won’t take the cure for cancer, would you say, “No, I don’t want them to die, but I just can’t manipulate them.” Of course not, you would do whatever you have to. So if what you have is best for a person you will do what it takes, because its BEST.

Now, here is the point many fear. They think that if they have to use emotions and feelings to sell, then they must be experiencing these emotions and feelings themselves. Some won’t care about this, but if you’ve been walking this process for some time, this may come up for you as  a resistance. But here is the key point to realize. YOU don’t have to experience or feel these emotions and feelings. You just have to get the customer to. How do you do that? Same way everyone does it. With words and pictures. You tell stories. A story is just a picture you paint with words that elicits emotions. For example, imagine that you have this beautiful delicious apple. Its looks so tasty and ripe. Inside this apple is a worm. You don’t know it but it’s in there. You take a big bite and crunch the apple in your mouth and then suddenly you feel this big juicy worm wriggling in your mouth. You can taste some of its slimy guts dripping down your throat and you start to gag, and then you start to vomit inside of your mouth and there’s the vomit and the guts and you are gagging… What are you feeling? I’m not feeling anything towards that. But it’s fun imagining how you are feeling. This is just an example. When I used the example of the child needing his medicine, I was telling a story as well. I bet you could paint that story even better with more detail and elicit more emotion. Give it a try.

So within this, you know your product is the best, you have done your research, and now you have a tool to elicit emotion. But why is it important that you do not have any emotion or feeling moving within yourself? Because then you can be manipulated. So when someone tells me they couldn’t sell a certain customer because they had this and this objection, the fact is the salesperson got sold. They allowed the customer to manipulate them.

So what is the key here. Going back to yesterday’s post, the point is to get to 100% clarity that what you are doing is Best for All. Then nothing can move you. Use this writing process. Sign up for DIP Lite to learn the tools of self-forgiveness, and self-corrective writing.

Here is the final ‘thought’ for today. The one who is emotional is the one who buys. Money flows to the one who is stable. Just like water, it seeks stability. That is why money is currency. Because the flow of water is the current. It is seeking stability. If you want to ATTRACT money then become the thing it is looking for: Stability, within the starting point of what is best for all. This will support you to remain standing no matter what Life or, god forbid, a customer, throws at you. Then as you stand within what is best for all, guess what you will receive? Again, the law of attraction says that you will attract what is best. Pretty cool, huh?

Become a person of integrity. Become a person of action. It’s easy to say you want to change the world, but what will you do about it?

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